Frequently Asked Questions
What are we about?
When we tell people about our community for young folks that emphasizes substance and deep connections . . . The first question we get asked is something like:
What do you mean depth?… like detailed facts about how life and the world works?
Well maybe . . . but depth to us is less about lots of factoids about the outside world around you and more about what life means to YOU personally, inside.
And then they usually say:
Ok, so do mean stuff like what is the meaning of life?
Well maybe. I mean we do talk about ideas and philosophies but we aren't trying to just go mind deep . . . we want to get to heart level deep. We want to ask the questions about yourself that make you stop and think for a second because we know how nourishing it is to get those moments. We want you to say something about yourself you have never said out loud before or discover something about yourself you have never seen before because we think that that is an important vitamin in life — something really enriching to do with others. Plus that is how real connections with others are formed. And, that beautifully rare form of deep laughter, that is almost the same as crying, comes directly from there, too! And who doesn't want deep laughter with real connections!
Technical Questions
What is included in membership?
All that is included in a monthly membership is listed out in the description under JOIN NOW so you will know all the details before you decide to push purchase.
Do you have to commit to a certain period of time with your membership?
Our membership is monthly . . . no committing to anything longer than that.
How do I cancel?
You can cancel easily any time by filling out the Cancellation Request Form
If the first month is FREE, do I have to enter a credit card when I sign up?
NOPE…no credit card or payment stuff required at all to get let in for the first 30 days. After the 30 day free trial period is over, we will send you an email with a purchase link and you can decide at that time if you would like to continue your membership.
I filled out the form for the FREE TRIAL, how do I get into the group from here?
You will get an automated email invite to join our Mighty Networks community (where all of the content is). This email will be sent to the address you entered on our Checkout Page.
I don’t see the invite email.
The email will be titled “Your Invitation to Join me in No One Can Tell Us” and it will be sent from no-one-can-tell-us@mn.co Make sure to check JUNK.
Are there people moderating the group and keeping an eye out for trolls?
ABSOLUTELY. Especially with our Free Trial policy, we are extra vigilant about the safety of our members. We are committed to having the Free Trial be easy so members can experience the value of what we offer directly….but we want to make sure that never compromises the safety and the experience of our users. Therefore, we are definitely moderating and monitoring closely.
Are there community guidelines?
Absolutely. And they are enforced by several moderators and admins in the group.
Here are our guidelines:
Be supportive. Encourage and support your fellow members. No one here is looking for your criticism, cynicism, advice, or judgment. (We can get those things on the rest of the Internet).
Share generously. Your stories and experiences may be exactly what another member needs to hear today to solve a problem or seize an opportunity.
Be constructive. We’re here to push each other forward and lift each other up. Find ways to help each other think bigger, reframe challenges, and stay curious about their experience (without trying to make it right or wrong).
Don’t spam, promote, or troll. This community exists to help you learn. It’s not a place to spam, shame, or bully anyone else.
ZERO ABUSE TOLERANCE. Please immediately share any abuse that you see. Any member who is not supposed to be in the group. Any shaming. Any sexual misconduct (that includes saying sexual things to another that they aren't welcoming). Any bullying. Anything iffy at all. We have a zero tolerance policy and will remove anyone who is doing these things. If you don't report what you are seeing, this also puts you at risk of being removed.
Hopefully, these should be easy agreements. If you think you’ll be unable to abide by these guidelines, let us know and we’re happy to remove you.
“I have been having a lot of fun with the games! I liked the dance party game because I love sharing music finding new stuff to listen to. And I enjoyed the game where we wrote stuff we had been called on our arms and washed it off, I thought it was encouraging.”
— Emma, Georgia
