A playful online community for young people where No One Can Tell Us to stop asking questions for ourselves
Where soulful young people come to meet true friends, power up their genuine shine, and bring real change to the world using the answers that are already within.
We want you if you . . .
don’t fit the mold.
You are comfortable with things that don't fit the typical mold and want to find others who are too.
want to find answers within.
Instead of searching for the magic thing that will make life smooth, you think it is a better investment of your time to discover what you might already know.
think integrity matters.
You know there is a way to not abandon your Self, others, or the things you have truly committed to. Being who you say you are is important.
want substance.
You want the chance to explore being real and finding inner depth. And, you want to do this with others who are ALSO wanting to live life on their own terms.
are tired of mindless scrolling.
You want to give your time not just to scrolling though media feeds, but to scrolling through the world inside of you too. The inner "feed" is pretty awesome!
are a part of a new generation.
You are young enough to really get some change happening!
are strong-willed.
Ideas you have never heard before don't scare you. You actually want your mind blown open into whole new territories.
have a wide open mind and heart.
Does anything we have been saying sound really good, even if you aren't all the way there yet?
Depth has nothing to do with tattoos for us.
In fact, we asked random people what depth in life meant to them and the responses were mostly “huh...I dunno?” YIKES. Let's change that people. If depth in life is not a foreign language to you, come hang out with us and meet some like minded friends.
What you will find here . . .
Like-minded community
A way to build community with like-minded question-askers who insist on authenticity and embrace being REAL.
Substance
A chance to inquire deeply about life instead of the tired old image-based, mindless social-media stuff.
Befriending your POWER
A chance to find out just how many answers are already within YOU so you don't actually have to just "do as you are told".
Stepping out of your norm
Experience self-reflection and being more courageous in ways that are fun!
The antidote to small talk
Games, Laughter and Interesting discussion topics each week! (see How it Works below or read what Membership Includes)
True friends
Friendships that are REAL with thoughtful people who aren't only in it for being "cool".
No pressure to impress
A community with no pressure to impress so you can be loyal to yourself.
Knowing ourselves together
A place where we commit to knowing ourselves more fully together.
More than the clichE
Feeling INSPIRATION that goes beyond the boring cliché of preachy, glazed-over, disingenuous, self-help “you are special” touchy-feely talk.
A Membership that includes so much more than you think!
Games, an entire social media network to ourselves, Live Talk topic broadcasts, PLUS MORE
Unlike stock images, we won't shove preachy feel good things down your throat.
We aren't trying to create an image . . . or a vibe. Just a legitimate space for like minded folks to connect, be real and be encouraged to answer life's questions for themselves.
Your life after joining . . .
Only RAINBOWS and UNICORNS
Nah, we don't promise that kind of crap. Unicorns love to be grumpy too, and that is what makes them so perfect. We celebrate imperfection.
Friendships you don’t have to doubt
Enjoying relationships that you don't have to doubt and showing up as a friend that others don’t have to doubt in return.
Enjoying YOU for real
Solidly comfortable in your own skin…comfortable even with the uncomfortable parts.
Writing your own story
Assuredly living life on your own terms, listening to that wonderful voice within.
Capable to such creative levels, it is like magic
Skillfully creating infinite options in your life so you aren't stuck doing what doesn't feel interesting or what feels like a "have to".
No fear of falling short
Able to enjoy every (unexpected or expected) moment unfolding in your life without fear because you know at your gut level who you truly are.
Freedom to shine your way
Being totally unlimited by what others are doing.
We don't like empty.
The games we play aren't fake fun. The connections we make aren't fake ones either. You can have your real feet out in our house. Come check out our house (aka online community) for a little less fake in your life.
Here’s how it works:
Playful experiments
Each week we will send out a Playful Experiment for you and a buddy in the group to do. You will do all of the weekly experiments for that month with the buddy you are assigned. This way we all get to know each other and there is no extra guess work on your end. Partners are assigned, but it is up to you to reach out and make sure you guys get connected and do your Playful Experiment.
Talk topics
We have live video talks each week through Crowdcast (which means the person giving the talk is on video, but you don't have to be... you get to live chat and interact though). We have four different Talk Topic themes that we rotate between each week: Destroying Opposites, Connecting the Heart and Mind, Things that Touch the Soul, and Awesome Guest Speakers.
We might use music lyrics to talk about Destroying Opposites, a Netflix show to talk about Things that Touch our Souls, a science study or politics to talk about Connecting the Heart and Mind, but there will always be something interesting and relevant. Plus, our Awesome Guest Speaker could talk on the archetypes in astrology, handling your personal finances in a way that reflects you, or any of the things that you have always been curious about but need an expert to give you the quick run down on.
Gift circles
Each month you are invited to sign up for one Gift Circle. Gift circles are Zoom meetings (so you get to see each other and interact) with 6 people from the community where you ask for things you want and give things to others. You might offer to gift a used book you are done with or ask for someone to proofread something for you. You may set up a talk time with someone for 30 minutes to vent, send someone art you made, or direct message them something funny or inspirational for a week. There are all kinds of ways to give and receive and it is a great way to feel the joy of service and feel connected to the others in our group.
Scholarships
We offer scholarships to young people who want to join but don't have the means. Please contact us to apply.
“What interested me in this group is the connections that I hope to make. I am excited to meet new people and talk about things other than "how are you" and "what are you doing.”
— Emma, Georgia